Testimonials, Birth Announcements & Birth Stories

Congratulations to Kate and Pete on the beautiful and safe arrival of Madeleine Emily Swincer ~ 1:44pm Wednesday 16th July 2008!
Here is the story of Madeleine's birth...
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Congratulations
to Jennifer and Jason on the beautiful and safe arrival of
Sarah Adeline Forest ~ 7:05am Monday 17th March 2008!
"I
first learned of doulas by searching on the web about childbirth.
After having read a bunch of books on childbirth I decided that they
were only good for one thing – making you scared of all the 101
things that could go wrong and didn’t put you in a good frame of
mind at all. So I decided to go searching for a doula, someone who
had experience - where we had none - and someone we felt
comfortable with. After interviewing a few doulas in Canberra we
decided Jennifer was right for us. I was keen to tap into her
experience and liked the idea of support for both of us, someone who
was there for us, amidst all the medical stuff and hospital staff.
Jennifer came for a few visits before the birth to our home. It was
really good to have someone to ask questions of (I don’t know about
others, but sometimes you don’t feel confident asking questions in
front of others at a big class) in the weeks leading up to the
birth. Discussing the stages of labour with Jennifer and the
different methods and tools available to you to work through the
stages of labour was excellent preparation for the event. It made me
feel more relaxed before the birth and during the birth thinking
through the different ways to relieve pain and stay focused. In the
weeks leading up to the birth I felt relaxed about it all and I
attribute this to the preparation with Jennifer.
On the day Jennifer was great! It was a long and difficult birth
with a range of complicating factors and I cannot speak highly
enough of the importance of having Jennifer in the room for both of
us. It was really invaluable to me to have her encouragement
throughout the whole time (and the massages!) and I felt reassured
by her presence – it was good to have someone who was there to
support us exclusively, encouraged us both, suggested different ways
of relieving the pain, discussed the options with us and who
respected our decisions.
Jennifer was also really good and understanding (throughout our
meetings and at the birth) in helping us both through the birth. I
think this is something really important – both my husband and I are
the parents, I just happen to be the one doing the hard physical
labour and we always wanted both of us to be actively involved.
Jennifer understood and supported us in that. At all times, she
supported both Jason and I . Jennifer also provided us with heaps
of resources like books and DVDs about childbirth but also about
babies – the latter of which were great in the first weeks at home
learning what to do! Thanks Jennifer, I’m truly not sure what we
would have done without you!"
~ Jennifer Forest
"As a first-time Dad, I was very nervous about what my
wife would have to go through when giving birth. Jennifer was
extremely knowledgeable and supportive in the lead-up to the birth
and this helped my wife and myself become far more prepared and
in-control.
On the day, our labour was long and difficult. Having Jennifer with
us was a real blessing. She was a great comfort for my wife and was
also able to give us the knowledge we needed to make good decisions
despite being extremely tired and stressed.
Our main midwife was very negative about the role of dads and tried
to exclude me from decision-making. Jennifer was very supportive of
me and the role dads play in labour and really helped me support my
wife. I would strongly recommend Jennifer to any soon-to-be
father. She was truly wonderful."
~ Jason Forest
Here is the
story of Sarah's birth...
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Congratulations
to Tivoli and Luke on the beautiful and safe arrival of
Imogen Eve Collits ~ 10:49am Thursday 17th January
2008!
"I first heard of Jen on the internet through my inquisitiveness of
what a doula actually does. Her beautiful website made me decide I
would like to meet her to see if she was what I was looking for in a
doula. My partner, Luke, was wary due to him never having heard of a
doula before, but he said he would give it a go.
Jen's first visit confirmed that we had done the right thing; Jen
was level-headed, easy going, informative and really listened to
what we had to say.
From then on Jen came over regularly every few weeks and we built up
not only a good understanding of birth but also a good friendship.
Jen's answers to our questions were always to let us know what she
knew and then would let us make our own decisions. She never thrust
on us her ideas on how birth should be but tried to help us work
towards the birth we wanted. By the end of our meetings I felt
confident about the coming birth and knew that I had a great support
in Jen.
During the birth Jen was a quiet help, being nearby and ready to
support whenever we needed her. Luke was my main support person and
was absolutely fantastic; Jen helped Luke to support me and he
commented later that during the birth he was never scared or
nervous. The best way I could describe the birth is us, myself,
Luke, our baby and Jen, working quietly and calmly as a team,
knowing what we all needed to do.
After Immy was born, Jen took some beautiful pictures, made sure we
were all ok and then left us to relax and be with family.
Jen was a blessing to us, having put in alot of effort, time and
thought. We have the utmost respect for her and on the day of Immy's
birth Luke decided he would like to have Jen back again for the next
baby! Jen's support allowed us to have a beautiful experience of
birth and a great start to Imogen's life."
~ Love Tivoli, Luke and Imogen
Here is the
story of Imogen's birth...
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Congratulations
to Erin and Jay on the beautiful and safe arrival of
Raine Jemma-Lea Henry ~ 5:23am Friday 28th December
2007!
"Being a nurse, I thought I was pretty ready for labour. Boy,
was I wrong! During my pregnancy, Jen and I had spoken about what
type of birth I wanted and the pain relief I wanted to use; from the
start I had said that when the pain got too bad I wanted an
epidural. Jen was happy to go along with anything that I wanted; she
did not try and push her own values onto me.
I felt having Jen there throughout my labour helped keep me calm and
focused and helped me get through each contraction. It was also
lovely getting my back massaged through the strong contractions.
When the pain got too intense for me and I felt that I couldn't go
on, I said I wanted an epidural. I was having my baby in a hospital
that prides itself on natural birth, so I felt that I had to try and
really push to get the epidural I had asked for. Jen helped with
explaining to the nurse that this was something that we had spoken
about and that I had said I probably would want.
While waiting for the epidural I had had enough and wanted to go
home; having Jen there to help calm the situation was helpful not
just for me and my husband but I think the nurse was happy as well!
After having the epidural, I felt nothing - no pain and no
contractions. I was then able to start enjoying the
experience.
Jen took pictures throughout the labour which is something we will
always treasure. Thankyou, Jen, for being involved throughout our
pregnancy and labour. We would highly recommend you to anyone having
a baby! Good luck in the future."
~ Love Erin, Jay and baby Raine
Here
is the story of Raine's birth...
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Congratulations
to Emma on the beautiful and safe arrival of Eli James
Maslin ~ 7:04pm Wednesday 21st November 2007!
"I first met Jen 29 weeks into my pregnancy. I had
little knowledge about labour and birth and was feeling quite
apprehensive about the whole thing. Right from our first meeting, I
felt incredibly reassured by Jen's confidence in women's ability to
give birth calmly and naturally.
Over the following weeks of my pregnancy Jen met with me numerous
times. We quickly developed a bond and I knew that I wanted her to
be with me for the birth of my baby.
She provided me with resources about the birthing process, including
books and DVDs, which gave me the knowledge I needed to feel
prepared and empowered for birth.
She was always available for a chat if I needed to call her. I found
this especially important in the final weeks of my pregnancy.
When it came to the actual birth, Jen was an angel. She never left
my side from when I first started experiencing contractions to Eli's
arrival, more than 24 hours later.
There were many times during the labour when I didn't think I could
go on. Jen's gentle support and encouragement calmed and reassured
me. Her physical support was also fantastic, helping me to shower,
change and move about during labour.
I am so grateful to Jen for everything she did for me throughout the
last weeks of my pregnancy and especially during labour and Eli's
wonderful birth. She is an amazing doula and I wish her well as she
continues to offer wisdom, guidance and support to other expectant
mothers, fathers and families."
~ Emma Maslin
"We are deeply grateful for the wonderful encouragement, assistance
and personal attention Jen gave to Emma during her pregnancy, the
birth of Eli, and the days following this experience. Her care,
kindness and friendship mean such a lot to Emma. We wish her well.
Thankyou, Jen!"
~ Granny & Pa to Eli (Beth & Alf Maslin - Emma's parents)
Here is the story of Eli's birth...